How to Leave an Abusive Marriage in India With No Money
Reviewed by
Adv. Meera Krishnaswamy ¡ LLB, Practising Advocate
You wake up every morning, feeling trapped and scared, wondering how you'll escape the abusive marriage that's suffocating you. You're not alone, didi. Many Indian women face this same nightmare, and it's not your fault. The fear of not having enough money can be overwhelming, but there is hope and help available. You deserve to live a life free from violence and fear, and we're here to guide you through it.
What You'll Need
- patience
- courage
- a safe place to stay
- a supportive network of friends and family
- legal aid
Document Everything
Start keeping a record of all incidents of abuse, including dates, times, and details of what happened. Also, save any texts, emails, or other messages that may be used as evidence. This will help you when you decide to take legal action or seek help from authorities.
Keep in mind: Be careful not to put yourself in danger while collecting evidence, prioritize your safety above all.
Reach Out for Help
There are many organizations and helplines in India that provide support and assistance to women in abusive marriages. You can contact the National Commission for Women (NCW) or the National Domestic Violence Helpline for guidance and help. You can also reach out to local NGOs or women's shelters in your area.
Worth knowing: Don't be afraid to ask for help, and don't worry about what others might think. You deserve to be safe and happy.
Make sure to use a secure phone or computer when reaching out for help, and be cautious about who you trust with your situation.
Have a specific question you can't ask anyone? Ask it anonymously â no name needed.
Plan Your Exit
Once you have a support system in place, start making a plan to leave your abusive marriage. This may involve finding a safe place to stay, arranging for financial support, and getting legal advice. You can also consider filing a complaint with the police or seeking a restraining order against your abuser.
Keep in mind: Be prepared for the possibility that your abuser may try to stop you from leaving or harass you after you've left. Have a plan in place for your safety, and don't hesitate to seek help if you need it.
Take Care of Yourself
Leaving an abusive marriage can be emotionally and physically draining. Make sure to take care of your physical and mental health during this time. Seek counseling or therapy to help you cope with your emotions, and try to stay connected with friends and family who support you.
Practice self-care and do things that make you happy, like reading, taking a walk, or listening to music.
Don't forget to prioritize your safety and well-being, and don't hesitate to seek help if you're feeling overwhelmed or in danger.
"Remember, your safety is the top priority, and there are people who care about you and want to help, so don't be afraid to reach out for support."
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Adv. Meera Krishnaswamy
LLB, Practising Advocate
Family Law Specialist, High Court
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