Male-dominated industry mein ek woman ke taur par confidence kaise build karein
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Kya aap kabhi meeting mein baithti hain, dil zor se dhadak raha hota hai, sahi mauke ka intezar karti hain, aur phir koi male colleague aapko beech mein hi tok deta hai ya aapka idea zor se bol kar apna bata deta hai? Office jaane se pehle mirror mein dekh kar kya aapko lagta hai ki kya aap us boardroom ke liye bani hain? Please ye baat yaad rakhein: aap akele nahi hain, aur aapki baat bahut matter karti hai. Ye khud ko badalne ke baare mein nahi hai; ye us jagah ko claim karne ke baare mein hai jo aapne apni mehnat se kamayi hai.
What You'll Need
- Ye mindset ki 'Main yahan ki haqdaar hoon'
- Ek supportive mentor ya ally
- Meetings ke liye preparation notes
- Apni growth ke liye thoda sabr
Meeting se pehle apne 'power points' taiyaar rakhein
Jab aapko apne facts pata hote hain, toh confidence apne aap badh jata hai. Kisi bhi meeting se pehle, do-teen points likh lein jo aap share karna chahti hain. Saamne notes hone se koi aapko beech mein tok nahi payega aur agar koi baat kaatne ki koshish kare, toh aap wapas apne points par aa sakti hain.
Apni 'work-wife' ya ally dhoondhein
Aapko ye ladai akele ladne ki zaroorat nahi hai. Koi aur woman ya supportive male colleague dhoondhein jo aapko back kar sake. Agar aap koi idea share karti hain, toh wo keh sakte hain, 'Main inki baat se agree karta/karti hoon,' jisse aapki authority badhti hai aur dusron ke liye aapko ignore karna mushkil ho jata hai.
Gossip karne wale ya aapko neecha dikhane wale colleagues se door rahein; apna circle soch-samajh kar chunein.
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Zaroorat se zyada sorry bolna band karein
Hum aksar koi sawal poochne ya opinion dene se pehle 'I'm sorry' bol dete hain. Ye band karein! Aap apni baat keh kar kuch galat nahi kar rahi hain. 'Sorry, can I ask...' ki jagah 'I have a question about...' ya 'Here is my perspective on this' kahein. Aapki language hi batati hai ki log aapki authority ko kaise dekhte hain.
"Confidence ka matlab darr ka na hona nahi hai; confidence ka matlab hai darr ke aage bhi apni baat kehne ki himmat rakhna."
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