Family functions mein relatives ke body shaming comments ko kaise handle karein

By PurpleGirl Editorial Team•Updated May 2026•2 min read

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Aap mirror ke aage khadi hokar apna dupatta adjust kar rahi hain, khud ko beautiful feel kar rahi hain, tabhi aapko aane wali family wedding yaad aa jati hai. Aapka dil baith jata hai. Aap abhi se us ek aunty ki awaaz sun sakti hain, 'Tumne toh bahut weight put on kar liya hai' ya 'Tum ye diet kyun nahi try karti?' Ye hurt karta hai, hai na? Pet mein wo jo sinking feeling hoti hai, wo bilkul real hai, aur main chahti hoon aap jaanein ki aap akele nahi hain. Aapki body public debate ka topic nahi hai, aur ab waqt aa gaya hai ki aap in gatherings mein apni peace wapas paayein.

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What You'll Need

Ek gehri saans
Ek calm, neutral facial expression
Ek 'exit' phrase
Self-compassion

The 'Grey Rock' Technique

Jab koi comment kare, toh defensive na hon ya apni diet explain na karne lagein. Bas ek boring, neutral answer dein. 'Okay' ya 'I see' kahein aur blank face ke saath turant kisi aur se food ya weather ke baare mein baat karne lagein. Jab aap unhe emotional reaction nahi deti, toh wo aapko provoke karne mein interest kho dete hain.

Apna response short rakhein taaki aur sawaal na puche jayein.

Set a Firm Boundary

Agar comments continue rehte hain, toh aapke paas direct lekin polite hone ka poora haq hai. Unki aankhon mein dekhein aur kahein, 'Main aaj apni body ya weight par discuss nahi karna chahti. Chaliye kisi aur cheez ke baare mein baat karte hain.' Ye bolna thoda scary lag sakta hai, lekin ye aksar conversation ko wahi rok deta hai.

Ye boundary set karne ke liye guilt feel na karein. Aap apni mental health protect kar rahi hain.

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The Power of the Exit

Aap in events mein prisoner nahi hain. Agar koi relative baar-baar mean ho raha hai, toh aapke paas wahan se nikalne ki poori permission hai. Bas kahein, 'Excuse me, mujhe kisi se milna hai,' ya 'Main drink lene ja rahi hoon,' aur apne doston ya cousins ke group ki taraf chale jayein jo aapko safe aur happy feel karate hain.

Gathering mein hamesha ek 'safe person' rakhein jisse aap baat karke apna mann halka kar sakein.

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"Aapki worth scale par kisi number se nahi naapi ja sakti, aur aap dikhne mein kaisi hain, iska explanation dene ke liye aap kisi ko answerable nahi hain."

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Frequently Asked Questions

Agar main elders se rude nahi ho sakti toh kya karoon?

Boundary set karna rude hona nahi hai; ye self-respect hai. Aap polite tone mein bhi firm reh sakti hain. Aapko awaaz unchi karne ki zaroorat nahi hai, bas apni baat clear rakhein.

Kya mujhe unhe chup karane ke liye apni health issues batani chahiye?

Nahi. Aapko kisi ko apni medical history batane ki zaroorat nahi hai. Khud ko explain karne se aksar unhe aur 'ammunition' mil jata hai unsolicited advice dene ke liye. Apni private life ko private hi rakhein.

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Family functions mein relatives ke body shaming comments ko kaise handle karein

What You'll Need

The 'Grey Rock' Technique

Set a Firm Boundary

The Power of the Exit

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