Signs That You Are in an Emotionally Abusive Relationship and How to Seek Help
Reviewed by
Adv. Meera Krishnaswamy ┬╖ LLB, Practising Advocate
Kya tumhare partner tumhe hamesha neecha dikhate hain, beizzati karte hain, ya darate hain? Tum akele nahi ho. Bahut si Indian auratein chupchap seh jaati hain, yeh sochti rehti hain ki kya unka rishta emotionally abusive hai. Hamesha darr darr ke rehna, partner ke gusse se darna, aur fansa hua mehsoos karna bahut overwhelming ho sakta hai. Lekin, problem ko pehchaanna hi usse bahar nikalne ka pehla kadam hai. Agar tum yeh padh rahi ho, toh shayad tum jawab dhoondh rahi ho, aur isme bahut himmat lagti hai.
What You'll Need
- himmat
- support system
- sabr
- phone ya computer ka access
Emotional Abuse ke Signs Pehchano
Emotional abuse subtle ho sakta hai, lekin signs ko pehchanna zaroori hai. Isme lagatar criticize karna, gaslighting, emotional blackmail, ya dosto aur family se alag karna shamil ho sakta hai. Apne rishte par kuch samay do aur kisi bhi behavior pattern ko pehchano jiski wajah se tum khud ko bura mehsoos karo ya partner ke reactions se daro.
Keep in mind: Journal rakhte waqt savdhan raho, kyunki tumhara partner use access karne ki koshish kar sakta hai
Kisi Trusted Friend Ya Family Member Se Baat Karo
Kisi aise insaan se baat karna jis par tum bharosa karte ho, emotional support milne aur situation par ek alag perspective milne ka ek accha tareeka ho sakta hai. Yeh koi friend, family member, ya neighbor bhi ho sakta hai. Reach out karne aur madad maangne se darna nahi.
Worth knowing: Aisa koi chuno jo bina judge kiye sunega
Apne trusted friend ya family member ko khatre mein na daalo, iska dhyan rakho
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Support Helpline Ya Organization Se Contact Karo
India mein bahut si organizations hain jo emotionally abusive relationships mein phansi mahilaon ke liye support aur resources provide karti hain. Tum National Commission for Women (NCW) helpline jaise helpline se contact kar sakti ho, ya Indian Women's Crisis Centre jaise organization se contact kar sakti ho.
Keep in mind: Shared phone ya computer se call karte waqt savdhan raho
Safety Plan Banao
Agar tum rishta chhodne ka plan bana rahi ho, toh safety plan banana zaroori hai. Isme ek safe jagah pehchanna, backup phone aur computer rakhna, aur ek secure email account banana shamil ho sakta hai. Tum support ke liye kisi local women's shelter ya organization se bhi contact kar sakti ho.
Apna safety plan confidential rakho
Is baat ke liye taiyar raho ki tumhara partner tumhe jaane se rokne ki koshish kar sakta hai
Professional Help Lo
Ek therapist ya counselor tumhe emotional support de sakta hai aur aage badhne ka plan banane mein madad kar sakta hai. Woh un underlying issues ko bhi solve karne mein madad kar sakta hai jo emotional abuse mein contribute kar rahe hon. Professional help lene se darna nahi тАУ yeh taakat ki nishani hai, kamzori ki nahi.
Keep in mind: Therapist ke saath apni location ya contact information share karne mein savdhan raho
"Yaad rakho, emotional abuse kabhi tumhari galti nahi hoti, aur madad maangna kamzori nahi, taakat ki nishani hai."
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